Today, I discuss the importance of raising children to be good humans, not just good students. I emphasize the long-term goal of preparing kids for successful adulthood, focusing on cultivating a strong internal compass, the shortcomings of behaviorism, and why we should focus instead on a child's relationships to self, peers, and broader community.

I recently visited Washington Island in Wisconsin, and one standout moment was taking the ferry all the way to the end of the peninsula, to Rock Island state park. A young teenage boy, maybe 13, directed the passengers in getting on the ferry and loading their camping gear, along with safety rules for the ride…

Self-directed learning in a small group setting.